I’ve been thinking a lot lately about who you get to BECOME when you win important battles— how it shapes you as a man.

I guess that’s why they say that “winning is a habit.”  As life throws you new challenges, you step into them with more than a different attitude…  We are shaped by our experiences, and so I believe that you actually step into these new challenges as a different man.

Unfortunately this must be true of defeat as well.  Everyone, male and female, has had their hearts broken. 

But right now what I’ve got on my mind is: 

“What happens to a man’s identity, who does he transform into, when he has True Love in his life and he knows exactly how to steer it, grow it, nurture it, and harness its power?”

I wonder what percentage of men have this power?

I have no idea, but I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t get much push-back if I said it was less than 1%…

Most men, if they’re lucky, get to experience it some time in their life… that crazy magical lightning bolt of terrifying ecstasy that we call True Love… but what then?  

They have no idea how to control it, and it stays or it leaves just as mysteriously as it arrived.

And what I’m doing here is no less than this:

I’m inviting you to become one of those men, that tiny percentage of men who can control it, harness it, and yes, MASTER it… 

This is a program for men who aren’t willing to go through another day experiencing anything less than that.  Men who refuse to continue being afraid of Love, who refuse to settle for the mediocrity of living with less passion for fear of being broken again.

Life is full of things that seem impossible to figure when you have no instructions, no guidance… not even any role model so that you could at least you can say you’ve seen someone else do it.

Imagine if I put you at the top of a snowy mountain with those stiff, Frankenstein ski boots, a couple of metal sticks, and two long, slippery planks… and you had never even seen someone ski down a mountain...

What would you able to figure out from that?  How might you get down without breaking your neck?  Without plowing your face over and over again into the cold and wet.

Most men have no role models or mentors or instructions on True Love.  Even if you do have a role model couple who are succeeding, chances are they have no idea themselves what they are doing to make it work!

What I am inviting you into here, is a chance to actually demystify this deeply mysterious and sacred thing we call love.  A chance to stop plowing your face into the cold and wet.  

…A chance to have your own beautiful, life-affirming, wildly passionate Love story.

…And a chance to find out who you get to become when you have that kind of Love in your life.

Here’s What You Will Get…

- A definition of True Love that you can stake your life on. Men have been trying to define True Love since the dawn of history, it was the top of Plato’s “Symposium,” and every great philosopher has offered their voice.  But the fact remains, you must be able to define something before you can MASTER it, and I want to offer you a definition that actually works

- The Sexual & the Sacred. Love would be a lot easier if it was simply an learnable skill like skiing, but of course there it is far more complicated because it is the place where your skills, your emotions, and your understanding of the sacred meet.  Mastering love is a deep access point to spiritual growth, and your deep understanding of being part of something greater than yourself.

- How to earn and win total SURRENDER from your perfect woman so that you can feel complete trust and confidence in her love.  And more importantly, the surprising and powerful truth about who you become as a man when you have this kind of surrendered feminine in your life.

-  How to know when you have met your perfect woman. This is a monster of an issue for so many men.  It’s hard enough to have the courage to give your heart to someone, but how can you ever know if you’ve made the right choice?  This is a big, bad, wildly dangerous problem if you don’t know how to solve it, and it’s just as true that being able to solve it and KNOW for sure is a life superpower.

- The secret True Love path that builds your sense of worthiness and confidence so that you stop sabotaging your relationships, destroy jealousy and insecurities, and finally vanquish your fears around relationships.

- How to navigate “boundaries” and “codependency” in True Love relationships… The standard relationship psychology is great for normal relationships, but when it comes to True Love it’s dead wrong.  Figuring out how to navigate this stuff while both growing your True Love and maintaining your freedom and agency and individuality requires a new way of seeing these things.

- DOING True Love:  The core of this program is showing you a repeatable system for changing Love from something that “happens TO you” to something that you “DO with intention.”  It is a series of insights, strategies, tactics, practices, and understandings that give you the power to master True Love with your perfect woman.

Curriculum:

Week 1: A Definition of True Love That You Can Stake Your Life On

Week 2: Love & Spiritual Truth

Week 3: Unconditional Love

Week 4: Ego, Worthiness, Self Transcendence and “Becoming God”

Week 5: Doing Love: Strategies, Tactics and Practices - Part 1

Week 6: Doing Love: Strategies, Tactics and Practices - Part 2